Get the networking events worth showing up to

Tell us where you are. We will send you the best rooms for family law attorneys and the next meeting dates. Add a ZIP and this page will also show your local chapters and which seats are open.

Most business owners network where their competitors are, not where their referral partners are.

Your own trade group is for learning. Your partners' groups are where the work comes from. Everything below starts with one question. When something happens that makes people need family law attorneys, who else gets a call that same week?

Family law attorneys sell to individuals and households, and most of the work starts when a marriage ends. It moves fast, so being the name already in hand matters more than being the cheapest. Most clients buy once, so the flow of new names is the whole business.

What starts the work
  • Divorcewhen a marriage ends
  • Lawsuit or claimwhen somebody gets sued
  • Arrest or criminal chargewhen somebody gets arrested or charged
  • New babywhen a couple has a child
  • Death / probatewhen somebody dies and an estate has to be settled
Block one

Who should be sending you clients

Ranked by what starts the job, not by who sounds close to your trade.

  1. 01

    Mental Health Therapist

    Two-way
    68

    Trigger: a marriage ends

    You and therapists and counselors both get the call when a marriage ends, usually the same week. This one goes both ways.

  2. 02

    Community Association Manager (HOA / Condo)

    They send you work
    64

    Trigger: somebody gets sued

    Community association managers hear about it when somebody gets sued, before you do. This one sends you work rather than trading it.

  3. 03

    Insurance Property & Casualty

    They send you work
    61

    Trigger: somebody gets sued

    P&C insurance agents hear about it when somebody gets sued, before you do. This one sends you work rather than trading it.

  4. 04

    Financial Advisor

    You send them work
    57

    Trigger: a marriage ends

    You hear about it when a marriage ends, before financial advisors do. Expect to give more than you get back here.

  5. 05

    Private Investigator

    Two-way
    57

    Trigger: a marriage ends

    You and private investigators both get the call when a marriage ends, usually the same week. This one goes both ways.

  6. 06

    Attorney Real Estate

    You send them work
    56

    Trigger: a marriage ends

    You hear about it when a marriage ends, before real estate attorneys do. Expect to give more than you get back here.

  7. 07

    Attorney Business & Corporate

    They send you work
    55

    Trigger: somebody gets sued

    Business attorneys hear about it when somebody gets sued, before you do. This one sends you work rather than trading it.

  8. 08

    Primary Care Physician

    They send you work
    54

    Trigger: a couple has a child

    Primary care practices hear about it when a couple has a child, before you do. This one sends you work rather than trading it.

  9. 09

    Insurance Life

    Two-way
    53

    Trigger: a marriage ends

    You and life insurance agents both get the call when a marriage ends, usually the same week. This one goes both ways.

  10. 10

    Attorney Estate Planning & Probate

    Two-way
    53

    Trigger: a marriage ends

    You and estate planning attorneys both get the call when a marriage ends, usually the same week. This one goes both ways.

Block two

Where those people actually are

Ranked by how many of your best partners are in the room, and how much work each one can send you.

Start here

Your city or county chamber of commerce

Your partners are in this room: therapists and counselors, community association managers, and P&C insurance agents.

Too big and too broad on its own. The value is in one committee. Pick one and go every time. The same fifteen people show up, and they get to know you.

Chamber of commerce Monthly Under $500/yr ~4 hrs/month
Find your local chapter →

Give someone nine choices and they pick none. If you do one thing from this page, do this.

  1. 01

    Your city or county chamber of commerce

    Chamber of commerce

    Your partners are in this room: therapists and counselors, community association managers, and P&C insurance agents.

    Too big and too broad on its own. The value is in one committee. Pick one and go every time. The same fifteen people show up, and they get to know you.

    Monthly Under $500/yr ~4 hrs/month
    Chapter finder →
  2. 02

    Your local estate planning council

    Your partners' association

    Your partners are in this room: financial advisors, life insurance agents, and estate planning attorneys.

    Estate lawyers, CPAs, bankers, and insurance people in one room on purpose. It was built for this kind of referral.

    Monthly Under $500/yr ~3 hrs/month
    Chapter finder →
  3. 03

    NAIFA / FPA chapter

    Your partners' association

    Your partners are in this room: financial advisors and life insurance agents.

    Classes and carrier ties. Life, property, and investment people here do refer to each other when their licenses differ.

    Monthly $500–$2,000/yr ~3 hrs/month
    Chapter finder →
  4. 04

    LinkedIn groups & local B2B communities

    Online community

    Your partners are in this room: P&C insurance agents, private investigators, and business attorneys.

    Works when your buyer has a job title. Useful comments on your partners' posts beat posting your own.

    Always on Free ~3 hrs/month
    Chapter finder →
  5. 05

    CAI (Community Associations Institute)

    Your partners' association

    Your partner is in this room: community association managers.

    Condo and HOA managers, board members, and management companies. One manager here can control hundreds of homes. They have a membership just for vendors, so you can join.

    Monthly Under $500/yr ~4 hrs/month
    Chapter finder →
  6. 06

    CAI chapter trade show & expo

    Event or trade show

    Your partner is in this room: community association managers.

    Hundreds of association managers and board members walking a vendor floor, there to find vendors. One of the few trade shows where a booth actually pays off.

    Annual $500–$2,000/yr ~2 hrs/month
    Chapter finder →
  7. 07

    BNI

    Structured referral group

    One seat per category, so your competitors are excluded by rule and the seats around you are the partners above.

    The biggest referral group in the world. You meet every week. Only one person per job. They expect you to show up.

    Weekly $500–$2,000/yr ~8 hrs/month One seat per category
    Chapter finder →
  8. 08

    LeTip International

    Structured referral group

    One seat per category, so your competitors are excluded by rule and the seats around you are the partners above.

    Weekly referral chapters. One person per job. Strong with trades and home services.

    Weekly $500–$2,000/yr ~7 hrs/month One seat per category
    Chapter finder →
The competitor trap

State bar practice sections

Most family law attorneys join this room first. It is also the one most likely to be the wrong pick. Classes, standards, and lawyers who share cases. The exception is across practice areas. Estate and family lawyers refer to each other all the time. Everyone in it does what you do. Join it for the training, the licences, and the ties to manufacturers. Do not join it for referrals, and do not join it instead of the rooms above.

State bar practice sections →

Let us be straight with you. For family law attorneys, a weekly referral group is not the best pick. Your partners gather in professional groups instead, so spend your time there. We would rather say that than sell you a seat you do not need.

Block three

Is your seat open?

Prime Time takes one attorney family law per chapter. Put in a South Florida ZIP above and we will show you which seats are open.

Add a ZIP code at the top of the page to see which seats are open.

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Have the next meetings sent to you

The rooms above are the answer. This is when they meet. Tell us where to send it and we will email you the next dates for family law attorneys, with the one page plan.

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Your one-page action plan

Five partners, five things to say, three rooms. Print it and keep it in the car.

Networking plan: Attorney Family Law

The five people who should be sending you clients

  1. Mental Health Therapist (Two-way)
    Shared trigger: a marriage ends
  2. Community Association Manager (HOA / Condo) (They send you work)
    Shared trigger: somebody gets sued
  3. Insurance Property & Casualty (They send you work)
    Shared trigger: somebody gets sued
  4. Financial Advisor (You send them work)
    Shared trigger: a marriage ends
  5. Private Investigator (Two-way)
    Shared trigger: a marriage ends

The three rooms to be in

  1. Your city or county chamber of commerce: Your partners are in this room: therapists and counselors, community association managers, and P&C insurance agents.
  2. Your local estate planning council: Your partners are in this room: financial advisors, life insurance agents, and estate planning attorneys.
  3. NAIFA / FPA chapter: Your partners are in this room: financial advisors and life insurance agents.

Don't confuse this with networking: State bar practice sections. Learning and supplier access, not referrals.