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Attorney Elder Law: Best Referral Sources

Who should be sending you clients, and the rooms they are already sitting in.

Get the networking events worth showing up to

Tell us where you are. We will send you the best rooms for elder law attorneys and the next meeting dates. Add a ZIP and this page will also show your local chapters and which seats are open.

Most business owners network where their competitors are, not where their referral partners are.

Your own trade group is for learning. Your partners' groups are where the work comes from. Everything below starts with one question. When something happens that makes people need elder law attorneys, who else gets a call that same week?

Elder law attorneys sell to individuals and households, and most of the work starts when an aging parent needs a different living situation. It moves fast, so being the name already in hand matters more than being the cheapest. Most clients buy once, so the flow of new names is the whole business.

What starts the work
  • Aging / care transitionwhen an aging parent needs a different living situation
  • Death / probatewhen somebody dies and an estate has to be settled
  • Retirementwhen somebody retires
  • Injurywhen somebody gets hurt
Block one

Who should be sending you clients

Ranked by what starts the job, not by who sounds close to your trade.

  1. 01

    Home Health Care

    Two-way
    75

    Trigger: an aging parent needs a different living situation

    You and home care agencies both get the call when an aging parent needs a different living situation, usually the same week. This one goes both ways.

  2. 02

    Senior Living Placement Advisor

    Two-way
    72

    Trigger: an aging parent needs a different living situation

    You and senior placement advisors both get the call when an aging parent needs a different living situation, usually the same week. This one goes both ways.

  3. 03

    Financial Advisor

    They send you work
    68

    Trigger: somebody retires

    Financial advisors hear about it when somebody retires, before you do. This one sends you work rather than trading it.

  4. 04

    Primary Care Physician

    Two-way
    65

    Trigger: an aging parent needs a different living situation

    You and primary care practices both get the call when an aging parent needs a different living situation, usually the same week. This one goes both ways.

  5. 05

    Insurance Health & Benefits

    Two-way
    61

    Trigger: somebody retires

    You and health and benefits brokers both get the call when somebody retires, usually the same week. This one goes both ways.

  6. 06

    CPA / Accountant

    Two-way
    60

    Trigger: somebody dies and an estate has to be settled

    You and CPAs both get the call when somebody dies and an estate has to be settled, usually the same week. This one goes both ways.

  7. 07

    Dentist

    They send you work
    53

    Trigger: somebody gets hurt

    Dentists hear about it when somebody gets hurt, before you do. This one sends you work rather than trading it.

  8. 08

    Real Estate Agent (Residential)

    You send them work
    52

    Trigger: somebody dies and an estate has to be settled

    You hear about it when somebody dies and an estate has to be settled, before residential real estate agents do. Expect to give more than you get back here.

  9. 09

    Massage Therapist

    They send you work
    52

    Trigger: somebody gets hurt

    Massage therapists hear about it when somebody gets hurt, before you do. This one sends you work rather than trading it.

  10. 10

    Insurance Life

    Two-way
    51

    Trigger: somebody dies and an estate has to be settled

    You and life insurance agents both get the call when somebody dies and an estate has to be settled, usually the same week. This one goes both ways.

Block two

Where those people actually are

Ranked by how many of your best partners are in the room, and how much work each one can send you.

Start here

Your city or county chamber of commerce

Your partners are in this room: home care agencies, financial advisors, and primary care practices.

Too big and too broad on its own. The value is in one committee. Pick one and go every time. The same fifteen people show up, and they get to know you.

Chamber of commerce Monthly Under $500/yr ~4 hrs/month
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  1. 01

    Your city or county chamber of commerce

    Chamber of commerce

    Your partners are in this room: home care agencies, financial advisors, and primary care practices.

    Too big and too broad on its own. The value is in one committee. Pick one and go every time. The same fifteen people show up, and they get to know you.

    Monthly Under $500/yr ~4 hrs/month
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  2. 02

    Aging Life Care / senior care provider network

    Your partners' association

    Your partners are in this room: home care agencies and senior placement advisors.

    People who help older adults and their families move, get care, and sort out the house. They are there when the family decides everything at once.

    Monthly Under $500/yr ~3 hrs/month
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  3. 03

    Your local estate planning council

    Your partners' association

    Your partners are in this room: financial advisors, CPAs, and life insurance agents.

    Estate lawyers, CPAs, bankers, and insurance people in one room on purpose. It was built for this kind of referral.

    Monthly Under $500/yr ~3 hrs/month
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  4. 04

    State CPA society

    Your partners' association

    Your partners are in this room: financial advisors and CPAs.

    A CPA is the person most business owners trust most. Sponsors can go to chapter meetings and classes.

    Monthly Under $500/yr ~3 hrs/month
    Chapter finder →
  5. 05

    NAIFA / FPA chapter

    Your partners' association

    Your partners are in this room: financial advisors and life insurance agents.

    Classes and carrier ties. Life, property, and investment people here do refer to each other when their licenses differ.

    Monthly $500–$2,000/yr ~3 hrs/month
    Chapter finder →
  6. 06

    Your county medical society

    Your partners' association

    Your partner is in this room: primary care practices.

    Doctors in one room, and almost nobody there is selling to them. You can usually go as a sponsor.

    Monthly Under $500/yr ~3 hrs/month
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  7. 07

    SHRM local chapter

    Your partners' association

    Your partner is in this room: health and benefits brokers.

    HR managers. They buy benefits, training, staffing, background checks, and legal help.

    Monthly Under $500/yr ~3 hrs/month
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  8. 08

    Rotary International

    Community & service organization

    No referral mechanics at all, which is why the trust runs deep. Business follows in year two, not month two.

    Weekly, service first, and openly not a referral group, which is why the trust runs so deep. Work comes after a year, not a month. Members skew older and settled.

    Weekly Under $500/yr ~6 hrs/month
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Let us be straight with you. For elder law attorneys, a weekly referral group is not the best pick. Your partners gather in professional groups instead, so spend your time there. We would rather say that than sell you a seat you do not need.

Block three

Is your seat open?

Prime Time takes one attorney elder law per chapter. Put in a South Florida ZIP above and we will show you which seats are open.

Add a ZIP code at the top of the page to see which seats are open.

Get the dates

Have the next meetings sent to you

The rooms above are the answer. This is when they meet. Tell us where to send it and we will email you the next dates for elder law attorneys, with the one page plan.

We already know your trade and your area from this page, so there is nothing else to fill in. We do not ask for a phone number. Every email we send has an unsubscribe link.

Take this with you

Your one-page action plan

Five partners, five things to say, three rooms. Print it and keep it in the car.

Networking plan: Attorney Elder Law

The five people who should be sending you clients

  1. Home Health Care (Two-way)
    Shared trigger: an aging parent needs a different living situation
  2. Senior Living Placement Advisor (Two-way)
    Shared trigger: an aging parent needs a different living situation
  3. Financial Advisor (They send you work)
    Shared trigger: somebody retires
  4. Primary Care Physician (Two-way)
    Shared trigger: an aging parent needs a different living situation
  5. Insurance Health & Benefits (Two-way)
    Shared trigger: somebody retires

The three rooms to be in

  1. Your city or county chamber of commerce: Your partners are in this room: home care agencies, financial advisors, and primary care practices.
  2. Aging Life Care / senior care provider network: Your partners are in this room: home care agencies and senior placement advisors.
  3. Your local estate planning council: Your partners are in this room: financial advisors, CPAs, and life insurance agents.